It´s been so long I don´t even know what to write. My time in Merida was the time of the trip where I had the most access to Internet and yet I wrote you nothing. There are many reasons for that but I will not get tinto them here.
Merida was an interesting place to try to spend three weeks. My experience there was the opposite of the first part of our trip in Barquisimeto/Chivacoa. I didn´t feel like I was part of a family or community. I didn´t feel like I was processing information and learning about people´s lives and experiences. I felt like I was in a touristy location being forced to go to a spanish class I didn´t enjoy.
I enjoyed the mountains of Merida but I didn´t enjoy what i was doing there or how I was spending most of my time. The only thing I felt like I could do for entertainment was shop. Now, I grew up in a touristy little town so I am aware how important money flow can be for a community that rellies on it. But the buying of gifts for the people I love in the US turned into my only goal and I ended up resenting it.
I have become aware that I don´t like the relationship between the buyer and the seller unless it takes the form of a conversation between the artist and the appreciator, an exchange of information about the product. Like what happens when you buy something from someone who´s worked on the product long enough to really care about it. When I, as the buyer, take on the role of someone who wants to think about what I am buying, and am not acting as a blind consumer- trying to get my needs met.
I had two very different shopping experiences in Merida. The first was at the Mercado Principal- I compair it to Pike Place in Seattle- but others didn´t see it that way. I think the idea behind the Mercado is that it functions as a hub of artisinal products from Venezuela. But it seems so huge, many of the venders have so many products I wonder if they could possibly know who made the products, how and why. This was the place where you could definetely find your shot glasses and other such things that are mass produced at the cheapest cost possible. There coudl have been some artisans there that I think could have made their products or know who made the products. But I was treated as quickly and as concisely as possible- my first experience of this in Venezuela.
My second buying experience was with an artisan who sells his jewelery and and other crafts in a plaza in the center of Merida. My friend and I probable spend an tour practicing our spanish with him and his friend while we learned about how long he´d been making these awesome peices, how he makes a couple of them and where each seed is from and what other uses the seed and other ítems used to make the products have. It was a really relaxing experience. Where I didn´t feel like I was trying to shove as much shit as I could into my bag and run away as soon as possible. It´s nice just to talk and share what people are interested in and hear what they have to say about what you are interested in.
Relationships- they make the world go round- not money.








