Alcohol’s effect on culture: Sex and Alcohol
Week six I read online articles relating to the relationship to sex and alcohol. How alcohol can promote or tamper sexual activity. The articles wrote about myths and realities about how alcohol can affect people’s sex lives. One myth that a few sources explained was that it is a common belief that alcohol helps people be more sexual and supports their sexual performance. When actually it might be tampering their sexual performance because too much alcohol in a night and over time reduced the blood pressure. This is where the common term “Whiskey dick” comes in, when men drink alcohol they have a chance of not being able to keep their guy up, resulting in awkward sex. So is it really worth it? But guys aren’t the only gender suffering from alcohol side effects when it comes to sexy time. When women drink alcohol without drinking water their body might lack the ability to become natural lubricated. The lack of performance is one of the factors of sex and alcohol.
Right away when I think about sex and alcohol I think about people getting taken advantage of because they are too intoxicated and don’t have a friend nearby to save them. I wrote about my own experiences about drinking at college parties in my journal that I choose not to share. But what I will share is that I am not pro college parties (well at least the ones with excess alcohol), for many reasons. 1. There is usually underage drinkers. The whole reason why fresh out of high school students go to house parties is so that they can drink with friends. They don’t have the option to go to a bar like the of age adults. I never got a fake id but I had eighteen year old friends that had fake ids. I waited my sweet ole time to become twenty-one to go to bars and such. And I suggest that anyone who doesn’t want to pay a outstanding fee should just wait until they are twenty-one to enjoy the alcohol nightlife. Here are the potential fees:
“Even if you are unsuccessful, if you attempt to purchase alcohol you can be charged with a misdemeanor. The maximum penalty is not more than 90 days in jail and a $1000 fine. However, you will be charged a minimum of $250 and, if community restitution is required, a minimum of 25 hours of restitution.”
Also here are the fees of being caught under the influence while under the legal drinking age:
“Minor in Possession (MIP)
You do not have to be in actual possession of alcohol to be cited for an MIP. If you are exhibiting the effects of having consumed alcohol (alcohol on your breath, results of a breathalyzer test, statements by others, etc.), you may be charged with an MIP offense. The maximum penalty is one year in jail, a $5,000 fine, or both.”
https://lcb.wa.gov/education/know-the-law
Back to why I think college parties suck. 2. They are full of sex. A lot of parties have themes and these themes are usal to just dress in bra in underwear. I am so sex positive and dtf but it creeps me out that you never know if the party will be a casual party or randomly become a orgy, enough said. 3. Countless stories about women being raped at college parties. 4. If you are in college focus on school. Books over boys and booze. 5. In general college parties are just stretchy because they are not regulated. Anyone can join and anything can happen. Sometimes there might be random older man chilling when they don’t even go to the school.
Internship: What I did and What I do
Thursday..
Sizizis got some new liqueurs from Salish Sea. Salish Sea is a local organic liqueur company. It is a family owned business that is ran by Sam Desner with the help of his father Sandy. Sam has history of being a mixologist, this inspired him to make his own line of liqueurs. The company has a small staff group, about nine or so that work at their main location in Lacey Washington. They sale to local business, online and have a location in California (I think, I talked to one of the employees a month ago and I think that’s where the other distillery is located) Right now the company is small yet thriving and they plan to continue growing and spreading their goods, right now they sale online to twenty-six states in the US.
Well the liqueurs were actually donated from the Cryptatropa bar down the street. Cryptatropa has high-medium activity, there is a constant flow of customers. Because there is a constant stream of customers the mixologist must move fast to give the drinks out in a timely manner. We (sizizis) was gifted the liqueurs because we have less customers allowing us the freedom to make specialty drinks with multiple steps. Anyways it was cool to get some new alcohol on the shelve, never too much.
I did a small taste test on a few of the liqueurs and described their aroma, taste and color in one word. It is necessary that a mixologist or any food artist tastes their ingredients so they know how to use them. You don’t need to drink a full shot or a cocktail but a little dash with some sparking water can be enough for the artist to evaluate the taste so they know for future use. I think that it is important to write about your taste test because if you sever a drink with the alcohol you might be asked to describe it or you will have to talk about the drink with the customer.
Liqueur: red raspberry Aroma: sugary Taste: a kick Color: red brown.
Liqueur: grapefruit Aroma: citrus Taste: white flowers Color: light yellow
Liqueur: lemon grass Aroma: bright Taste: sea Color: brown
Liqueur: honeybush Aroma: cinnamon Taste: cough syrup Color: amber
Liqueur: jasmine Aroma: flower sap Taste: caterpillar Color: light beer
I made two really bad drinks using some of their liqueurs.
Horrible attempt #1
1 oz Salish Sea lemongrass liqueur
½ oz lime juice
2 oz vodka
½ oz triple sec (orange liqueur)
Shake in a Boston shaker for about 15 seconds, drained and then served in a tumbler with ice. What was so horrible about this drink was that the lemongrass was not noticeable. It was erased by the triple sec. I would love to make a drink where the lemongrass is honored. The color of this drink was nice though, it was summer light yellow, very feminine and pretty.
Horrible attempt #2
2 oz Whiskey
1 oz Salish sea rose liqueur
1 pipe of rosemary bitters
Shake for 15 seconds, drain and served in a tumbler with no ice. I have no freaking clue why I tried to combat with Whiskey. Whiskey has such a strong flavor to mask. If you want to make a taste of a liqueur to stand out it is best to use a low flavor spirit like vodka.
Sizizis has only been open for about a year as a bar. With the same name Sizizis, the location was tea shop, but that was over five years ago. Anyways we “aren’t sure why” the business doesn’t have a lot of customers yet, but on average we are lucky to have ten customers. There has been many nights ( I have volunteered at the bar for going on four months UNPAID) I am obsessed with the bar and want to see it thrive, so I don’t mind working there for free. Also my field supervisor helps me learn how to be a mixologist and that has a lot of value to me. But I would love to get paid and see the bar grow so I stay. There has been times that I have prayed to the bar and such, on Thursday I wrote the mantra:
Sizizis is a successful business.
Sizizis is a successful business.
Sizizis is a successful business.
I think that mantras are powerful. So I repeat this to myself to gain higher vibration for the bar, to encourage growth and stability. Yes, I pray for the bars success.
Friday…
I served tea to a past classmate at Evergreen. I love when I see familiar faces walk into my bar. I am always happy that we found each other again, in such a magical setting. I took a food economics class so it was nice to see her in a food setting again, and in the real world.
It looked like she was on a date. Not the first date, but one of the first dates. They seemed comfortable with each other in the sense that they could be around each other, but not so comfortable that they could casually fart around each other. He ordered a gimlet and she ordered tea. I had the assumption that she is very intelligent when I had a class with her and back at it again she proved me right. I thought it was so sexy that she ordered tea on a date to a bar. Why do I think that buying tea on a first date at a bar is sex? Because tea (well at least the ones we serve) does not intoxicate the brain and dumb you down. I thought it was sexy because she was making sure that she stayed in charge with herself.
Earlier in the week I was thinking a lot about sex and alcohol. About how people pick each other up at bars for sex and such. And then there was a cutie that came in and bought tea. I am not sure if she just doesn’t drink but to me it seemed like a women who knew her worth and didn’t want to lose control of her values, so she bought tea to stay up on her game. It seemed like a survival technique for the dating world.
Honestly I hate seeing first dates leave the bar after they have had one or two drinks. My job is to make sure people don’t get shit face drunk, yes, but even one drink changes the mind of the inhibitor. It scares me that people might interact in sexual activity that they might agree to without alcohol. No one has left the bar shit face with another person. But I have seen people on a lets say first date drink just two drinks and then be way cozier with their date. I really don’t know why people go on dates to a bar other than the chance of getting lucky at the end of the night.
Saturday..
I confessed to my field supervisor that “I want to make ten drinks by 9pm.”, I might have made ten drinks by 10pm.
The first drink I made was a twist I created on the spot: (made this drink twice)
2 oz vodka
1 oz Salish Sea Red Raspberry liqueur
3-7 fresh mint leaves
Muddle the mint leaves in a medium tumbler glass, add ice to the brim, add liqueur and spirit into glass and stir in glass. It is ready to be served.
Very fresh drink. Taste like sweet tea. The Mint adds flavor, the liqueur add the sugar and pink color and the vodka does it thing.
Let’s talk about a few of the customers that came into the bar on misty November 3rd 2018. Regulars came in, the barkeeper likes regulars: 1.They bring consistent money 2. Gain familiarity & bond. There is this women that truthfully says that Sizizis has the best gin and tonics in town. She is being honest and genuine, it’s just funny because a gin and tonic is simple:
2 oz gin
Tonic water
½ Lime
Actually I think her name is Monica. This is her order “Monica’s gin and tonic”:
2 oz gin
¼ lime
Tonic water
¼ Salish Sea Rosemary liqueur
Dashes of grapefruit bitters
Kinda hilarious and insync but minutes before she and her like nine friends I thought to myself “I wish people would come in and order gin and tonics, those are easy to make.” and then a group of people came walking through the door, all bought Monica’s gin and tonic and some bought beers.
As the night trickles on it became day, morning. We stay at the bar until 2 am, people walk in and say “Good morning”. This man walked in an reminded us his name and then recited a poem. He is a sweet old man, he sings good too. I have seen him twice, he hasnt bought anything but he sings to us, tells us his life stories and recites poetry. HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAA it’s amazing and I enjoy his company. You never know what will happen when the doors open to the bar, it is always something new.
Tobacco and Alcohol
Throughout the quarter I have been reading poems from out of the book Pipe and Pouch compiled by Joseph Knight. It is a small just over 180 pages book of poems that are about tobacco. Some poems are about the tobacco plant itself, the relationship between tobacco or the pipe and the user, and a bunch of other pretty words about the beauty of tobacco and pipes.
I thought it would be important to touch on tobacco if I was going to study alcohol because they have a bond with each other. Where there is alcohol, chances are there will be tobacco nearby, in the form of a cigarette, pipe, or hookah.
I dream about vintage Hollywood movie sets where they are in bars and everyone is smoking out of their pipes looking sexy as fuck. How elegant it was portrayed for women to smoke, how mature and sophisticated.
Dance and Intoxication
Do you ever enter a rhythm with your body? You can’t control the movement? Dance to let it all out??? You can dance you can sing you can do everything!!!! Do you jump and hop across the street and feel like a child again?
I have spent a couple hours this week dancing to escape into the in body high. Similar to many body sensations. Dancing for me lets me free my mind, be expansive and relax me. I will write more about this next week and related it to my learning objectives.