Funny how plans and mindsets change so abruptly. I was so adamant on doing this alone. But sitting in the kitchen at the hostel in Pamplona, watching my fellow friends (classmates) cook and drink wine and laugh together just made everything feel alright in the world. I truly don’t believe that people are meant to be alone. There are times for it, of course, but in general company and friends is so, so important. Why is there such a stigma around reflection only being possicle in the midst of isolation? Why can’t you learn about yourself and the world through others? Honestly, at the end of the day, relationships are really all that matters. They make you feel whole. This trip has taken a wonderful turn.
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You are learning many of life’s lessons in a short period of time. Your thoughts made me stop and reflect for a moment. I think that maybe the answer is both Amber. There are times to be alone and there are times to be with others. The latter by far outweighs the former in my opinion. I suppose it is a matter of finding that delicate balance and most importantly knowing when to be alone. That can often recharge a person so that the best of you is made possible for those around you. So happy that you are with friends now but please go easy on the wine 🙂
I’m SO happy that you’re with friends and fellow students!!! I’ve been so worried about you. Glad things are going better!!!