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Bill-Sunday 5/1

A peaceful, often meditative day. Flat, good, well waymarked roads all the way to Melide, where the Primitivo ended. Thomas Melcher, an Austrian who has walked the Camino yearly since 2009, took us into the main church to get the final Primitivo sello. We waited through the end of a baptism mass and went into the sacristry for the stamp; a good end to that way.

I thought I would stay in Melide, but, having nothing else to do,  I walked on another 10 km, 30+ for the day,  to Ribadisio do Baixo where there is a beautiful, large albergue right on the river. Sam and I stayed here last year after we saw the big uphill into Azura and decided to call it a day here.  Stories now complemented by memories.

On having nothing else to do: Yesterday Sophie and I were deciding, around 2:30, whether or not to go on. She said, “I don’t have anything else to do.” A few minutes later, this usually somber person started laughing and laughing and eventually got out, “I don’t have anything else to do!” When she stopped laughing, she explained that at home there is her job and at home her husband who was severely disable by a car accident some 25 years ago. She always has so much to do, but here, “I don’t have anything else to do.” Another chuckle.  Later, just before dinner,  I saw her lounging back on a chair in the sun reading her Bible and smiling. Nothing else to do.

Published in: Friends - Spirit, Where am I? on May 1, 2016 at9:25 am Comments (0)

Bill-Sat 4/23

Again posting early afternoon in anticipation of being in a gushingly reviewed albergue that is probably without wi-fi. Started the day with a steep uphill in a heavy rain and anticipating a climb of 400m over the next 7 km into Bodenaya.  The valleys,  which we get to see from above, are beautiful.

Update: Oh boy, was I wrong about this albergue not having wi-fi. It has everything.  David, the host, met us (I was walking today with TP, a photographer from Ireland who spends half the year in India), welcomed us to “our home,” offered tea, coffee,  beer… and chatted while we settled in. Then, before doing the paperwork,  he told us the rules of the house. “The first you know already.  This is your house. You are welcome to anything in the fridge, coffee, whatever there is. Then, we will have our family dinner around 8. When you get out of your clothes from today, please put them in that basket. I will wash and dry them tonight and they will be ready for you in the morning. At the end of dinner we will decide together,  like a family,  when the family will wake up in the morning. Everyone will wake together; alarms and phones are not permitted.” Not surprisingly,  David is friends with Don Ernesto from Güemes and with the other Camino David, the center of Casa de los Dioses outside of Astorga. On one wall David has a picture of a pilgrim from 1917, whom he calls “our (the Davids and Ernesto) god.” “You see that he is carrying two bags. One contains food for himself,  the other food for others.  It’s a reminder that pilgrimage used to be hard,  but one always shared and helped others. You had to.” Next to the picture is an embroidery of the Spanish version of a phrase we discussed in class, “el verdadero peregrino no exige, agradece”: “A true pilgrim does not demand, but gives thanks.” Next to that, in the wall, is a stone from the last time, in 2010, the Holy Door in the cathedral in Santiago was unbricked and opened for the Holy Year. The house, our house, is filled with history,  fellow feeling, and good spirit. Right now, we are six peregrinos, two friends, and David,  and everyone seems to know we are all lucky to be here now.

Oh, and it’s all donativo, “and please put the money in the box because I don’t like to touch the money.  It’s more beautiful that way.”

Published in: Friends - Spirit, Where am I? on April 23, 2016 at5:30 am Comments (0)

Liza’s email to friends

Liza Michaelson, my walking partner for another few days, sent the following notes and thoughts to group of her friends.  She allowed me to post it here:

I didn’t know Kim from Korea spoke any English. We have seen him walking really fast with a wooden staff, always alone. He smiles,waves, and nods his head. Right now he is sitting down with the meal he cooked for himself in the Gernicka hostel, and enjoying his bottle of red Spanish wine. When I saw him take a photo of his plate of salad, pork and eggs, I asked who he is sending photos to. I wasn’t sure if he would understand me, but he grinned widely and surprised me by saying, “My wife in Korea”.

He went on to explain in very few words that he recently retired after 35 years,and is finally getting to have this experience. He paused,sipped his wine,and finding the English, he looked in my eyes and said, “I like this time in me”.

We meet people in the various places we sleep,and then we pass them during the day while walking, and on the occasion we find ourselves in a restaurant, we always see fellow pelegrinos.

Most of the towns we are passing through are small, usually only one or two places to go out to eat, and they might be called a taverna or a bar.

In the Irun hostel I met a 55 year old half Vietnamese French woman who spoke no English at all. Using the map on the wall and lots of gestures, she told me her story. She started the Camino 5 years ago, but halfway through had to fly back to Toulouse because she got really sick. Holding her belly,she sticks out her tongue, looking quite ill. Last year she returned and started the journey where she had left off. At one point she was going along too fast, almost running in great leaps, when she tripped on her own hiking pole, and did a face plant; (demonstrated so dramatically on the kitchen floor of the hostel that For a moment I wondered if she was injured all over again) and had to go home. She shows me the airplane with her arms.This year she says, she started where she left off last time, right here, Irun on the Camino map,and this time she will walk carefully. She moves in slow motion; graceful ,contemplative strides across the small kitchen. She flashes a beautific smile and says in French just easy enough for me to understand, “That is the lesson the Camino holds for me. No need to hurry.”

I would like to add here that for me personally the hiking sticks that Ken Harrison gave me are the single most appreciated item on this trip, and have prevented many a near miss sipping…

I walk up behind 29 yr old beautiful Islamic Mariam, and we begin to talk as she holds a gate open for me. She left her boyfriend in Hamburg and her job of 6 years because she, “felt the Camino calling”. At the Catholic Church in Hamburg she received her pilgrims passport and a blessing from the priest. “It was very very nice, he gave me many angels”. She said she cried all the way through her first two days of walking because it was so hard, and she felt so alone. “I have always felt a connection with God. I don’t know how to explain, but I know he is with me.” Then she met Buher from Denmark, and he walked awhile with her until her tears were finished.

We met Buher, one of the many angels on The Way. He is a 50 yr old Danish father of three who just finished a Masters degree in philosophy. He is the one who came over to the young German man in the bunk next to me just before lights out at the hostel in Deba and said in beautiful English,”Just in case I don’t see you again, I want to thank you for our conversation, and tell you it was a pleasure meeting you.”

There are a bunch of different Caminos, and people walk at different paces, so you bond with some people, but you don’t always know who you will see again. A young guy named Boris who started in Nantes, France a month ago showed up late at our Albergue last night. He had walked 37 kilometers. (We were spent after 27). For breakfast he ate a big long baguette and a cup of instant coffee with milk, while I had a banana and sunflower seeds and a whole pot of tea. He offered me bread, I offered him seeds, and we both declined.

It’s kind of like being on a boat trip. A bigger, more spread out boat than I have ever been on, but still there is this feeling that despite coming from all corners of the world and speaking all different tongues, we are together; sharing this extended time without luxuries,or our families, or media, just being out in nature one foot in front of the other on a 1,200 year old path of spirit. We don’t see anybody most of the day, but we all get hungry, we all get rained on, we all hear the birds in the forest, the roosters in the yards,and  the bells; we all contemplate the outsides and insides of ancient churches and monasteries, we all see the pine and eucalyptus forests, the hilly countryside where every home has a small orchard, vineyard and vegetable garden, we all encounter the sheep,goats,horses,cats,dogs,cows, donkeys, mallards on the rivers, blooming fruit trees,quince,forsythia,primroses,and old stone barns; we all look for the yellow arrows that point out our way on walls, trees and fence posts; and we all get really really tired.

“Legs hurt” was all I could get out of two chuckling guys from Austria last night, slurping up Basque meatballs. They waved me off saying they didn’t speak English, but “legs hurt” pretty much sums it up for all of us. That and, “Could please you pop my blister?” It’s easy to see who is suffering from blisters on both feet. Instead of limping, they have that wet diaper, “waddle walk”..One morning I woke up to see the woman in the bunk across from me examining the bottoms of her feet with her headlamp in the pre dawn light. I drifted back to sleep and when I opened my eyes again she was rubbing them with cream. Indeed most of us have never been so aware of our feet.

Bill and I had a choice tonight of the last two bunks in this crowded hostel for 17 euros each including breakfast,(which means bread and jam) or a hotel room,6 blocks away,for 40 euros for the two of us. We chose the hostel. For one thing it was raining and we didn’t want to walk another step, but mostly the camaraderie of the hostels is part of this boat trip. We like connecting with others, and I especially like having access to a well supplied kitchen. It’s funny, you pay more for the privacy of a hotel room but you can’t fix yourself tea in the morning, or do as I did this evening; steam up some broccoli or hard boil some eggs for the trail. I find it touching how respectful people are in the crammed bunk rooms, tip toeing and whispering; and how well everybody cleans up after themselves in the bathrooms and kitchens.The last hostel we were in was only 5 euros. It was  the second floor of a cool old stone train station,but it had no sheets or blankets, no heat, no towels and no kitchen; yet it was just fine for one night. We are all so bone tired we sleep soundly,and we all get up and go by 8.

We have left the coast and are walking in the mountains. This region is called “Basque Country” a country within two countries. Spanish and French are the second languages for these proud people with ancient heritage. Their symbol has four sides, representing earth,air, fire  and water. We see it proudly painted on walls and wagons.

Eating out gets better and better as we learn what is offered. Omelettes stuffed with spinach and mushrooms sold in slices like pizza and amazingly not over cooked eggs; soups which are never called soups but called a plate of lentils or garbanzos, cooked till very soft and spiced with chorizo or smoked beef. The “mixed salads” are huge plates with at least 8 ingredients, and delicious  local olive oil.

Traveling with Bill has been an unexpected treat. For one thing he has Camino experience, but he also has lots of knowledge about European history and the church. Also he gave me his spare earplugs and toothpaste.

He will be walking all the way to the end, 6 weeks after I leave. As an Evergreen professor he has 25 students, all experiencing the Camino independently.  Every evening they are all supposed to mark their location with a dot on a blog map..

Warm blessings to each and every one of you, wherever you place your dot on the map tonight!

Love,Liza

Published in: Feet - Body, Friends - Spirit on April 8, 2016 at10:41 am Comments (0)

People

Hey you people,

Two anecdotes:

Liza and I walked for 8+ hrs from Irun to San Sebastian/Doestia along the spectacular,  dramatic north coast of Spain. Long story short, Liza tried to make a withdrawl from an ATM and it seemed to both of us that the screen said something about the issuing bank not honoringbthe card. Liza grabbed her card and we both walked away. Moments later, a 30 something yr old tapped her on the shoulder and said, in English and in a somewhat surprised way, “You left your money in the machine.” We walked back and the woman he was with was holding the bills like … they didn’t belong to her, and she passed them to Liza.  People, eh?

SECOND : We met a mother and daughter in Larrasoña. The 17 yr old daughter had had an emotional breakdown, didn’t know who she was, what she wanted in life… The mother’s response was, “Well, then we have to travel around the world,” and she sold everything she owned and they are.  From Melbourne, Australia, to an ashram in India, the Camino, other healing places. People, eh?

Bill

Published in: Friends - Spirit on April 3, 2016 at11:15 am Comments (2)